Getting Kids Excited to be a Big Brother or Sister

Finding out you are going to be a mother or father is possibly the most exciting news one can receive. For young children, who are going to be big brothers or sisters, taking time to make sure they understand what is going on, and all the fun they’ll have with the baby, will help to get them just as energized.

Here are some tips from the American Greetings trend experts on how to get your kids eager to take on their new role.

• Stroll down memory lane: Go through their baby pictures to help explain what is happening and to give them a sense of what the new baby will look like.

• Practice makes perfect: Visit friends who have infants to get your child accustomed to being gentle with their own little brother or sister.

• Head to the library: There are countless books for children that help them learn about what being a big brother or sister is all about. By reading to them you can help to reinforce the messages, and make them even more comfortable.

• Get them involved: Perhaps the most important advice for getting kids excited for a new baby is to get them involved. Have them help you pack your hospital bag, or even give ideas on names. You will be spending quality time together, and making them feel included in the process.

• Pre-school: Many hospitals actually offer classes for future siblings to teach them everything from how to hold their little brother or sister to what their job is as a big brother or sister. If you are looking for some additional support, check with your hospital to see if the course is offered.

• Celebrate their new responsibilities: Get them a small gift in recognition of their new role. Anything from a cute t-shirt to a fun card will do. Just make sure you are letting them know how important their role is so that they can share in your excitement.

The more time you prepare your child for their new sibling, the easier the transition will be when the baby actually arrives. By giving them extra attention, and getting them excited about their new responsibilities, you can help any child embrace their new role as big brother or sister.